Why I'm raising my kids with biological gender identity

I see so many people nowadays obsessed with this gender neutral baby fad. I myself have a daughter with a gender neutral name, mind you i added doll to her first name for the feminine quality. This blog is to not tell people how to raise their children, but being scrutinized recently that just because my unborn son has a penis doesn't make him a boy, and I don't go around judging parents on how they raise their children, but this was by someone who doesn't have a child, but is transgender so i bear with her point of view, especially after how much criticism she must have gone through in her life. I have a gay brother who i have had no contact with for 24 years after he came out of the closet and my parents disowned him so i can relate to how gender change and sexual identity can cause people to lose the people in their lives who can't respect their personal choices (like it affects families in any way besides looking like pos parents or relatives who care too much about the social aesthetic of how society views them). News for that family, you socially look like pos people. So im more of the supportive parents to what my children decide. My 8 year old son wanted to wear a spiderman mask for months one time. I let him, just not to school since public school kindergartens are against personal expression and personal freedoms at that extent that dress up is a big no no. My daughter, now 9, wanted to wear nothing but Halloween costumes for one whole summer. My whole family played dress up that summer. I let them be whatever they wanted to be, whenever they wanted to be that, and that could change from a few times a day to weekly, to monthly, and some days they just wanted to be themselves or just stay in pjs all day. Fine, whatever. I told them they can be whatever they wanted to be and they wanted to argue that 'no they couldn't'. I asked them 'whose going to stop you?' So they had a great time even swapping clothes for dress up with their siblings, which one is a boy, and one is a girl, so it made for funny experiences to see my son in a dress, but he wasn't very happy about it and demanded to be put back in boys clothes because he was a boy. He tried it, didn't like it, and I wasn't pushing him back in to it. He's 8 years old and decided that he in fact, is a boy. Now don't think i pushed him into this either. Kids, especially at young ages don't yet have gender roles imprinted in their little minds until told thats what they have to be, and that's how it is. He has a sister, he grew up knowing they were different. This was before the transgender and gender neutral Hollywood fad took over. These were different times, and when kids ask 'why doesn't my sister have a penis?' Its a parent's job, or was a parent's job to explain 'well because boys have a penis, girls have a vagina' So with that also came that he is the brother and he took on the duty to protect his sister from bad boys who may hurt her. He made it his duty to protect his sister since girls are biologically weaker than men, and im not referring to stubbornness, will power, mental capabilities, Boys are naturally stronger than women physically. Now her, as a girl, and being older naturally took on a more a maternal role with her little brother. She was bigger, she was older, she was smarter. (Yes, girls are naturally smarter than boys at a young age, they learn quicker) While my son needs to be told a million and one times not to do something that could hurt him, he will still hurt himself and do it again. Now i can tell my daughter once not to do something because it might hurt her. She may be defiant and learn on her own why i warned her, but she catches on much more quickly than my son. Now her being a girl, she has also been taught female empowerment. When she says no to someone, it means no. She is allowed to be smart, she is allowed to be pretty, she can have whatever body type she grows into and it doesn't make her less beautiful (even though many girls are made to feel like this is wrong to be a little curvy, and girls can't be both smart and pretty). SHE SURE AS HELL CAN!! now him having an older sister has learned how to respect women. He will be my little boy until and if he decides to be a woman and/or any other colorful identification under the rainbow, her as well. I think people forget that as parents, we raise children to be responsible and respectful in society. Men need to be taught to protect women, respect women, and be a complete gentleman towards women. In my opinion, if you neglect a child who understands gender identity, the roles and responsibilities that come with it, you are neglecting to teach them basic responsibilities. Boys should not hit girls, they should protect them. This is something that I instilled in my children. Girls should not hurt boys, and girls can be the absolute meanest people in the world. My daughter is 9 and has already had her share of mean girls calling her fat, stupid, and ugly, and i blame other parents for not teaching their kids basic respect to other human beings. Girls should be picking each other up instead of putting each other down, and way too many girls are like this. Do you have any idea how hard it is in today's world just to be a female? Boys can tell girls they are pretty and compliment them after crying because some girl picked on her. Why feminists today find it sexist is beyond me. Are they one of the girls who picks on other girls and lower their self esteem? Are they one of the women who make fun of men and lower their self esteem? Yes! men have self esteem and self esteem issues as well! Often overlooked in this world of 'equality'. I would prefer to have the son that sees your daughter crying and picks her a bouquet of flowers and tells her shes beautiful and listens to her problems like a gentleman should. I would prefer to have the empowered daughter who will see your son hurt and bring him a bandage. Call me crazy, but supporting my own children and teaching them how they should be expected to act is a priority as a parent, and yes it starts with simple things like playing dress up and telling them they can be whoever they want and indulging on that fantasy as well as teaching them simple basic gender roles. Venus